According to renowned relationship expert Audrey Hope over email with Bustle, 'often people don't realize how negative they are and that they play the role of victim. When this is mirrored back to them and they see the effect it has on their welfare and well being, then they can change.' Here's a way to think of it: 'A positive perspective is a decision and not a forever state,' says Hope.
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